Life Sam Smith does not want to be called “he” anymore By weekster Posted on September 16, 2019 2 min read Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Google+ Sam Smith asks whether everyone can no longer label him as “he”. The singer, who already indicated to be non-binary earlier this year, would prefer to be addressed as ‘them’ or ‘them’, Sam says on Friday in a series of candid tweets. “Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM. after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out…” said the singer. “I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but fuck it! “ Sam understands that not everyone will immediately accept his wish. “But please try. I hope you will see me as I see myself now.” The singer says he is not yet able to talk extensively about what it means to be non-binary. “For now I just want to be visible and open. If you have questions or wonder what all this means: I want to explain it as well as possible.” “I love you. I’m terrified, but now I feel super free. Be nice,” Sam concludes. In March, 27-year-old Sam said that ‘them’ had been struggling with ‘their’ identity since ‘their’ youth. The singer even considered a sex operation.