Life Wesley and Yolanthe have something to celebrate together By weekster Posted on September 6, 2019 2 min read Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Google+ Wesley Sneijder (35) and Yolanthe Cabau (34) may be separated; they have not completely disappeared from each other’s lives. Of course they have son Xess Xava (3) together, but Wesley’s son Jessey is still part of the life of his ex. “I am so proud of you” In her Instagram story, Yolanthe reflects on her ex-stepson’s birthday. “Jessey, darling. I love you so much and I’m so proud of you! Forever,” she writes with a photo of her and her two boys. Jessey’s father got married in 2010 to Yolanthe. She has therefore experienced a large part of his life. In a new interview with Grazia, Yolanthe says that during her marriage to the football player, she always put her family first. “All these years I have chosen to put my career in second place. I did this with love for my family.” After the divorce, she took more time for herself and for her son Xess Xava, and now she thinks it’s time to choose for herself. “My life now looks different. And I have more space to act.” The presenter still has a long way to go. “Now I am in the middle of a process in which a lot is happening. I hope that if I have left this period behind, I can say that it has made me stronger.” Wesley got his son Jessey together with his ex-wife Ramona Streekstra, with whom he got married in 2005. The couple split up after a four-year marriage.